The Real Damage of Projection

So true!

I do not understand what you mean about projections??? or is it expectations that a woman as well as men have to find and delight in their future. The problems Comes with the lack of communication. Men are usually the leaders of a traditional family, but a lot of times these men are not men, but want a woman who was traditional, but they don’t hold up their end. Being the leader of their family, protecting their family, loving their wife, no matter what that’s the mother of their child never getting angry and holding your temper, being kind, not being dismissive and if A man doesn’t have that leadership and kindness and one for all for the family then why do you expect a woman to be traditional. That’s where the confusion comes in She doesn’t have a voice, however, when you don’t communicate, for example you’re in Italy and your wife has always wanted to go to France. She’s talked about it with you and thought you were on board and then when she went to buy the ticket cause you would not go to France with her you just said no no so she’s confused cause she thought it was OK. She thought you were on board for her to go even if you didn’t want to. So I think the leader. In the family , it is your duty as a man to encourage your mate to interact , even writing down things and signing it, the both of you don’t get confusion. Also it prevents the man from saying?-I didn’t mean that, I never said that- your confused. But if it is written , agreed upon and signed -no no no you tell her-confusion sets in, her hopes are dashed, now that path is crushed -dare to trust or to dream again? That’s how confusion sets in when things are not clear and you are not willing to listen to her and her logic and way of thinking about things. You are really exposing yourself ❤️