From Angels to Ordinary People: When Quitting Fear of the Unloved

Just tear up the "expectation group" rule and stop fearing that people will not love...Believe it? Your life is easier and happier. Sinking! 🧚‍♀️❌🍃

In the past, I used to be the type of person who was' addicted to making others love '. I like it a lot when people are complimented that it is kind and cute to the point of being nicknamed the' angel of the party '.

But being an angel is very expensive, and I don't dare to interrupt anyone, I don't dare to show that I am angry, carrying everything until I break down, so many times the work grows that the same boss has to be angry instead, so I start to think, 'Eh...Or are we going wrong? '>

From a seepage, secretly in tears at night, so I changed to revisit myself:

'If there were fewer people who loved us...Will we be happier? '

He just may not love us as before, but he doesn't hate us! So I decided to step down from the angel's podium and become a 'normal person' who works for a reason, speaks and refuses more.

You can see that other people don't like it when we reject it. The atmosphere is different between the word 'yes' and the time when we explain 'why not'. In the beginning, it feels strange and trembling too...But in the past, it turned out that you were working more efficiently and happier each day in front of hand and back of hand!

So I woke up to know that fear of haters is a big barrier to life that we created to lock ourselves in.

Which office man is a People Pleaser, carrying the world until you cry like you used to? Let's share a comment. I want to say...Refuse it once, and you will know how vast and comfortable the universe is outside the angel's altar! 😊👇

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