INFJ: What's wrong?

Most recently, I went to do an MBTI personality questionnaire, and it turned out to be INFJ, which he says is the rarest type in the world! At first glance, I read the review, this type seems to be mysterious, uninterested in the world, or in some ways it seems to be a criminal...

At first I thought to myself, 'Eh, are we really like that?' Because actually, my inner self is a 'very compassionate person.' There's something called Empathy in a way that maybe people around me don't understand.

The weirdness is...When you see someone who is difficult or pathetic, you don't just see the picture in front of you and end it. But your brain will think far away: 'What's going to be like at home? Will the people around him take care of him? What have they been through to be here?' It is a deep sympathy that sometimes I secretly worry about people.

Very often, when you talk to someone else and say pity for that person. The person you talk to always says, 'Don't see pity at all,' hahaha. Watching a movie, crying. Being teased like a tissue very often. 😭

When you read about INFJ! We may look still on the outside, like observing (until people think they are wrong), but in our hearts we are ready to embrace the whole world with understanding.

There is a case in which a relative came to ask for help with a hundred thousand land liabilities. When I saw that he was very old but still had to work, I went to sell money to pay a bank that cut interest, but the interest barely cut the principal. My heart fell. Pity caught my heart and thought in my heart that 'zero loan' is not returned. Pity the old man...

But when consulting the house, they had to sign documents in distant provinces...It appears that no one agrees! ❌

Everyone takes Logic ahead and reminds me: 'If he can't deliver, he has to let go of the land. There is money to save. Take care of yourself when you are old,' and he says that if you push, you will help...This event definitely has a quarrel. The house is broken, haha. (In the number five, there are tears hidden)

Now I'm stuck in the middle...

One side is the 'heart' that sees pictures of difficult old people and then forgets their own safety.

The other side is the 'truth' that people in the house are trying to pull consciousness to protect us.

This is a huge obstacle to this type, and sometimes too much compassion comes back to hurt us and unconsciously create awkwardness for those around us.

If friends find this situation between 'help because of pity' and 'give up to save yourself and your family', which way to choose? Too pity? How can we give up from this kind of pity? Is there anyone INFJ if there is such a serious condition? 😊

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