HOW TO STAY IN LOVE - a refresher ✨🫶
HOW TO STAY IN LOVE
stay curious about the person you've fallen for. don't assume you know everything about them, whether you've known them 7 months, 5 years, or 30 years. each day remind yourself what drew you to them, and then ask yourself what draws you toward them still. hug them as often as you can. make inside jokes you'll talk about for years. don't allow the small, passive aggressive moments to fester into bitterness and resentment. be honest about your feelings. know there are always two sides to every story, and more often than not you should listen to them. don't stop flirting with them just because you've been together for years. create and respect healthy boundaries, because love thrives when it's safe and cared for. tell them what you love about them, don't just assume they know. hold their hand often. show up for them, especially when they need it most. remember that you're a team— neither of you has to endure the hard things alone. learn the difference between codependence and interdependence. keep building your friendship, don't treat it as a consolation. remember that staying in love involves giving it
every possible opportunity to grow.
-LACEY PAIGE RAMBURGER
I'm going to use parts of this is my upcoming vows, in Nov. Shh no one tell! 🙃
In any relationship, understanding and growth are vital. Staying curious and engaged with your partner allows love to flourish. Make it a point to discover new things about your partner, as people evolve over time. Ensure you maintain an environment where communication is open and honest—this prevents misunderstandings and resentment from taking root. Physical touch also plays a crucial role in nurturing love. Regular affection, such as hugs and holding hands, helps to reinforce your bond. Don’t shy away from light-hearted banter; inside jokes can deepen connections and create lasting memories. Over the years, it's easy to fall into routines, but continuing to date your partner and flirt with them keeps the relationship dynamic and exciting. Attend events together, re-create your first date, or find new activities to enjoy as a couple. Setting healthy boundaries is also essential. Love thrives when both partners feel secure and respected. Be open about your feelings and needs while being receptive to your partner's expressions. Building a solid friendship within the romantic relationship can make a substantial difference; cherish your companionship and never take it for granted. Remember, staying in love is not solely about the love itself but about providing it with the opportunity to grow through dedicated effort and mutual support.
I agree especially with the saying what you love about them because gratitude is so important and all people want to know they are appreciated for more than their looks ❤️