The bigger you are, the more you resist.....
Emotions and Behaviors of 2-3 Years Old and How to Manage Positive (Real Mother Version Works)
Anyone with two or three-year-olds will know that this is a real "small but big heart" age. 😂
Some days are sweet, others like lightning in the middle of the house!
Today, Pearl wants to share the popular emotions-behavior of this age with the positive management that mothers try, "Well, it works."
1.Bent-scream home (when not loud)
Children at this age begin to have "needs," but they do not speak completely, they do not communicate clearly, so they choose "cry, scream, struggle" in the language.
👉 How to cope positively:
• Hug first, do not argue immediately (the child will feel that the mother is still with him, do not leave him for crying)
• Use a short sentence: "I'm angry, right? I understand." → The child will calm down faster than we argue back.
• After calm down, tell me rules, such as, "I want candy, but candy to eat after rice."
💡 When he feels "I understand," he will listen a lot easier.
2. "My stuff!" Huang everything on earth.
At this age, the child will begin to know the word "my," but still do not understand sharing.
So the house drama happened = snatching toys with friends 😅
👉 How to cope positively:
• Teach simple words like "play together" or "wait in line."
• If he really won't, don't force it. Just say, "Mom, pack up, wait, calm down and play again."
• Use fictional play, such as mom dividing candy → rat dividing dolls → child absorbing sharing unknowingly.
3. Overflowing energy, walking, running, climbing, jumping, non-stop
Ages 2-3 are "Earth Explorer" ages, small but like a full of ultra-power charcoal. 🔋
👉 How to cope positively:
• Set up safe corners such as carpets, soft toys for him to release power.
• Take to the playground or run outside every day (the child is tired → easy to sleep → the mother is saved)
• Don't scold "Stay still now!" because it interferes with the nature of his age.
4. "No!" is a favorite word.
Want to eat = no
Wanna get dressed = No
Wanna go home = No
555 + Who is this age mother to understand very well?
👉 How to cope positively:
• Give a small choice, such as "How to wear a nice red or blue shirt?" The child will feel decision-making.
• Speak as a game, such as "Let's see who wears shoes faster!" Children will follow more easily.
• If you really find "no" → Do not force immediately → Wait a little more time, the child will give up.
5. Want to do everything yourself
"I did it myself!" is the Declaration of Independence. 😂
Even when you're spilled or not buttoned, the kid wants to try it.
👉 How to cope positively:
• Give it a real try (although sloppy, he'll be proud of himself)
• Prepare custom-made items such as small spoons, plastic tumblers
• If you help me, say, "Let's do it together," not "Let me do it myself."
Summary
Children 2-3 years old like blooming flowers. 🌸
If we understand his nature and deal with love + consistency,
He will gradually grow up to be a confident, emotional and ready-to-learn child.
You have to remember that → Children are not stubborn, they are just "grown up" and say, "I exist!"
Mook wants this article to be like a girl friend.
Read it, my mom will feel, "Okay, I'm not crazy alone." 🤣
And it works for the children at home.
