All relationships in this world are controlled by cause and effect.

# Lemon 8 Club# Writer reader

All relationships in this world are controlled by cause and effect: sow good seeds; keep good fruits.

❣️ life is a cycle of cause and effect, and the interpersonal exchange is a concrete manifestation of cause and effect. In what manner do you treat others and in what way will others repay you? What kind of relationship do you plant the seeds of what kind of relationship will you achieve? There is no irrational love, no irrational hatred. The direction of each relationship is hidden in the word "cause and effect" - planting a good cause and a good result. Plant an evil cause and eat bitter fruit.

01 The essence of cause and effect: Relationship is a two-way resonance.

Relationships between people are never one-sided, but they are two-way resonances. "You call, I'll answer." Your kindness towards others is like pebbles thrown into a lake, causing heat waves, and your resentment towards others is like a thorn thrown out, which finally hurts yourself. Cause and effect never goes away, but sometimes it comes late.

Treat others sincerely, and then you will receive sincerity from them in return. Treat others with indifference. Then you will be treated with indifference. Accept others' shortcomings with patience. They will understand your small shortcomings generously. Criticize others' mistakes with harsh wording. And they will counter your shortcomings with harsh wording. Any response in a relationship is an expression of the cause and effect of your past actions.

Don't complain that others aren't sincere enough. Try asking yourself first if you've dedicated your heart to it. Don't blame a relationship for not being long-lasting. Consider if you've dedicated your efforts to making it. Cause and effect is cyclical. What you treat the world will be what the world will repay you for.

02 The cause and effect of the effort: sincerity will not be betrayed.

Cause and effect in a relationship is hidden in every act of giving. You often think that others do not give you enough, but ignore what you do for them. You often overlook the kindness of others, but forget that no one is born to be kind to others. People who do not know the value of what others give will eventually lose the sincerity of others in the cycle of cause and effect. Only those who know the reward will reap lasting friendship in the long run.

For a smooth relationship, giving is extremely important, both helping those in urgent need, alleviating adversity, reaching out when needed, and providing friendships when they feel hopeless. Giving does not mean attentive self-indulgence, but compassion from the heart, not calculation of rewards, but natural sincerity. Cause and effect never frustrates those who give sincerely. What you do for others, the feelings you express, will eventually come back to you in other ways.

Don't harbor resentment just because your efforts don't work immediately. The mechanism of cause and effect continues to spin. The kindness you cultivate will quietly take root and flourish over time and grow into a big tree that ultimately protects your relationship.

03 Causes and consequences of acceptance: Good self-treatment is the foundation of good cause.

The precondition for building a good relationship is to cultivate oneself first. The foundation of cultivating benevolence lies in first accepting oneself. Those who do not like or treat oneself poorly are difficult to treat others sincerely. Those whose heart is dull and overflowing with negative power cannot bring warmth and light to others. Self-acceptance and making oneself happy is also a form of benevolence.

When you arrive, I will embrace you warmly, not let your enthusiasm be wasted. When you leave, I will send you away with blessings, not force you to stay. Don't interfere in relationships that aren't for you. Don't waste your time with people who don't admire you. Devote 30% of your energy to treating others with kindness, and 70% of your abilities to self-improvement. As your inner power grows, you won't be overwhelmed by anxiety in relationships. When you stand out, you will naturally attract like-minded people.

Your emotions are also a form of cause and effect. When you are in a good mood, you smile more, and those around you will take your positive energy, leading to more happy times. When you are in a bad mood and complain all the time, those around you will take your negative power. Even the smooth path can become an obstacle. Being bright and cheerful and looking at life with a positive attitude is the most precious seed of goodwill you sow for every relationship.

All in all.

All relations in this world are all subject to the law of cause and effect, sow sincerity, reap sincerity, sow patience, reap understanding, sow giving, reap rewards, sow kindness to themselves, reap a healthy and happy life.

Don't rush. Cause and effect takes time to consider. Don't be discouraged, because every good cause ultimately produces good results. Take care of all aspects of the relationship with care. Treat everyone you meet with sincerity, be kind to yourself, and live worthily. Believe in the power of cause and effect. Sow good seeds, reap good fruits. Let every relationship move forward warmly within the framework of cause and effect, and let your life be full of integrity and happiness within the framework of cause and effect.