What’s next?
The place I’ve found comfort in for the last several years is slowly beginning to feel stagnant.. it’s been home.. it will always be a slice of home🤍 but perhaps I’ve dug myself too deep into a comfort zone for now my restless soul is starting to stir. Waking up & opening my eyes more & more asking myself questions like is this the life I want to continue to live or could we create a happier one? Why are you constantly in a state of stress? Are you noticing yet the effects it’s having on your physical & mental health? Don’t you want to be happy ?!? If not for yourself at least for your kids? I want a more peaceful life for my family 🤍
But how am i supposed to make changes when rent is expensive AF! Getting a stable job is hard AF! Soo is moving fully out of the question or could it work?Taking into consideration I’m an autism mom & my child needs more support than neurotypical children.
You’re about to be 30 tho… I don’t think u want to be turning 40 looking back on your 30’s sad you haven’t moved forward in life, sad you don’t laugh or have fun & disappointed in yourself for missing out for not believing in yourself.. trusting things can work out! Even if you have no idea how in the current moment.
I swear I’ve felt lost & alone before but not like this.
This time it just hits differently having littles who depend on u.
& here we are a mostly stay at home mom wondering what’s next? Which direction is the best for my family & i?
As a mother of children with autism, navigating life’s transitions can seem daunting. Understanding that early intervention and consistent routines are essential can help bring peace to your household. Here are a few strategies: 1. **Seek Support**: Connect with other autism moms through online communities or local support groups to share experiences and advice. 2. **Consider Therapy**: Engaging a therapist can aid in coping with stress and making sense of feelings of stagnation. Professional guidance can assist in developing strategies to manage anxiety and promote well-being. 3. **Focus on Small Changes**: Rather than overwhelming yourself with big life changes, start with small, manageable steps that can lead to larger goals. Assess your current routines and pinpoint areas for gradual improvement. 4. **Explore Flexibility**: If moving isn’t feasible, consider ways to modify your existing environment to better accommodate your children’s needs. This could mean rearranging spaces to create calming areas or designating specific activities for focused learning. 5. **Prioritize Self-Care**: Remember, you cannot pour from an empty cup. Incorporating self-care routines into your day, whether through exercise, meditation, or hobbies can significantly enhance your mental health and resilience. Navigating while being a special needs mom might feel isolating, but you’re not alone. Lean on your community, embrace change, and trust that you are capable of creating a happier, more peaceful life for you and your children.
