Theme: it’s imperative for all of us to set healthy boundaries.

Wisdom speaks.

People come into our life for a reason for a season and forever we must allow the Holy Spirit to show us what one it is.

Church we must understand our seasons friendships have seasons a friendship that can’t be tested can’t be trusted I’ve had leadership on my journey that was verbally abusive and emotionally abusive they are normally people who have been verbally and emotionally abused, and they will do it to other people if they don’t receive complete healing a person that are emotionally or verbally abused normally have a broken heart. A broken heart is a broken mind. Our mind is our spiritual hearts.

Psalm 147:3

He heals the brokenhearted

and bandages their wounds.

Story time.

A verbal /emotional abuser have been cut the day they started being verbally or emotionally abused and they will bleed on people that did not cut them at that point you must srt your healthy boundary. The healthy boundary are not allowing people to verbally or emotionally abuse you if we honest sometime, we can’t see what we are doing because we can be too busy looking at what other people are doing. Self inspection is in imperative beloved.

Take note some men don’t like to talk about hemotional stuff being slandered, and someone attempting to put words in your mouth can bother a man or a woman emotionally sometimes people just don’t like you and want to push you away at that time, all you can do is bow out gracefully to keep your peace and to protect your hemotions biblically slander is the act of making false and damaging statements about someone with the intention to harm their reputation. It is a form of lying and bearing false witness, which are explicitly condemned in scripture. Slander is considered a serious sin because it damages both the individual being spoken about and the community, undermining trust and fostering division that means slander is satan’s will anyone that’s claiming Christ that’s going around slandering anyone are in desperate need of deliverance if that person don’t want to receive deliverance this depends on who the person is if it’s your spouse, you can’t stop embracing i had to come to this place on my journey, a few times not embracing people to protect my peace and my hemotions i was a emotional little guy, teenager, and adult because of childhood trauma I’m not going back i will bow out gracefully.

My transparent moment.

Giving Jesus Christ my heart I got introduced to some newfound emotions that i did not know i can have and I’m still learning how to deal with this new sensitivity that I received from Jesus Christ and I will protect my new stuff daily i feel what people vocal cards won’t give me it’s a conversation without words it’s i receive my confirmation having nothing to do with emotionalism it’s all about learning how to walk in the Holy Spirit when it comes to our feelings and our emotions as well it took me a longgggggg time to get to this place church I could not tell you how many people attempted to use my transparency against me that never go good. I pray and stay away from people like that on purpose i do understand why people won’t be transparent because people will use it like a machine gun on you. Sad but true.

Ecclesiastes 3:5-6

A time to scatter stones and a time to gather stones. A time to embrace and a time to turn away. A time to search and a time to quit searching. A time to keep and a time to throw away.

Ecclesiastes 3:5-6 discusses the cyclical nature of life and the importance of recognizing different seasons and their appropriate actions. It highlights that there are times for everything, including seemingly contradictory actions like scattering and gathering stones, or embracing and refraining from embraces. These verses emphasize that life is a series of changing events, each with its own time and purpose, ordained by a higher power.

1 Corinthians 15:33

Don’t be fooled by those who say such things, for “bad company corrupts good character.”

The context Apostle Paul uses to warn the Corinthian Christ-ians about the dangers of associating with those who deny the resurrection. The verse highlights the importance of careful discernment in choosing companions, as negative influences can erode positive character and behavior we must be careful with friends that like gossip because we can be the one that they are gossiping about if a person gossip with you, they will gossip about you. Please be careful all of these things can mess with us emotionally. And we don’t talk about this kind of stuff. I believe we need to start talking about these things from pulpits and face-to-face.

Conclusion.

2 Timothy 3:3

They will be unloving and unforgiving; they will slander others and have no self-control. They will be cruel and hate what is good.

2 Timothy 3:3: This verse describes people who are "unloving and unforgiving; they will slander others and have no self-control. They will be cruel and hate what is good". While not explicitly defining emotional abuse, this describes characteristics and behaviors often associated with emotional abusers.