Theme: sad to say some leadership and believers want to win arguments we need to allow the Lord to use us to win souls.

True story brother John said this to me a few months ago if we are never tested How would we know what’s in us and how would we know if we are passing the test? this is what i did not know about constructive criticism that’s what we should have as the body of Christ that other stuff is ungodly the only place that stuff belong is in the trash constructive criticism is biblical a faith that can’t be tested can’t be trusted.

Matthew 23:1-24

Jesus Criticizes the Religious Leaders

Then Jesus said to the crowds and to his disciples,

“The teachers of religious law and the Pharisees are the official interpreters of the law of Moses.[a]

So practice and obey whatever they tell you, but don’t follow their example. For they don’t practice what they teach.

They crush people with unbearable religious demands and never lift a finger to ease the burden.

“Everything they do is for show. On their arms they wear extra wide prayer boxes with Scripture verses inside, and they wear robes with extra long tassels.[b] And they love to sit at the head table at banquets and in the seats of honor in the synagogues.

They love to receive respectful greetings as they walk in the marketplaces, and to be called ‘Rabbi.’[c]

“Don’t let anyone call you ‘Rabbi,’ for you have only one teacher, and all of you are equal as brothers and sisters.[d] 9 And don’t address anyone here on earth as ‘Father,’ for only God in heaven is your Father.

And don’t let anyone call you ‘Teacher,’ for you have only one teacher, the Messiah.

The greatest among you must be a servant.

But those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.

“What sorrow awaits you teachers of religious law and you Pharisees. Hypocrites! For you shut the door of the Kingdom of Heaven in people’s faces. You won’t go in yourselves, and you don’t let others enter either.[e]

“What sorrow awaits you teachers of religious law and you Pharisees. Hypocrites! For you cross land and sea to make one convert, and then you turn that person into twice the child of hell[f] you yourselves are!

“Blind guides! What sorrow awaits you! For you say that it means nothing to swear ‘by God’s Temple,’ but that it is binding to swear ‘by the gold in the Temple.’ Blind fools! Which is more important—the gold or the Temple that makes the gold sacred?

And you say that to swear ‘by the altar’ is not binding, but to swear ‘by the gifts on the altar’ is binding.

How blind! For which is more important—the gift on the altar or the altar that makes the gift sacred?

When you swear ‘by the altar,’ you are swearing by it and by everything on it.

And when you swear ‘by the Temple,’ you are swearing by it and by God, who lives in it.

And when you swear ‘by heaven,’ you are swearing by the throne of God and by God, who sits on the throne.

“What sorrow awaits you teachers of religious law and you Pharisees. Hypocrites! For you are careful to tithe even the tiniest income from your herb gardens,[g] but you ignore the more important aspects of the law—justice, mercy, and faith. You should tithe, yes, but do not neglect the more important things.

Blind guides! You strain your water so you won’t accidentally swallow a gnat, but you swallow a camel![h]

1 Peter 4:12

Suffering for Being a Christ-ian

Dear friends, do not be surprised at the fiery ordeal that has come on you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you.

Nobody never sat me down and told me that you will go through some things with people in the body of Christ, based upon my Bible studies through the years that should not be in the body of Christ.

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... Read moreIn my experience, navigating relationships within the body of Christ can be both challenging and deeply rewarding. The tension between wanting to prove a point and genuinely fostering spiritual growth often arises in church leadership and everyday fellowship. I have seen firsthand how focusing too much on winning arguments leads to division, whereas prioritizing soul-winning fosters unity and spiritual maturity. Constructive criticism, when done with grace and the right heart, has the power to strengthen faith and build character. It’s important to remember that a faith untested cannot be fully trusted; trials refine our beliefs and show what truly lies within us. Reflecting on Matthew 23, Jesus’ rebuke of the Pharisees reminds me about the dangers of hypocrisy and the importance of servant leadership. Leaders should lead by example, emphasizing justice, mercy, and faith rather than outward show or legalism. The call to humility—where the greatest are those who serve—is a daily reminder for me to check my motives and ensure I am genuinely uplifting others. Moreover, 1 Peter 4’s message about suffering as a Christian resonates deeply. Tests and struggles are not signs of failure but opportunities for growth and deeper reliance on God. We shouldn’t be surprised by trials within the church, but instead see them as part of our spiritual journey. The phrase "I called you to win Souls not to win Arguments" is a powerful guiding principle. It challenges me to prioritize love and spiritual impact over ego or simply being right. In practical terms, this means listening more, speaking less, and always seeking the Lord’s guidance in every interaction. Ultimately, embracing constructive criticism and allowing God to use our testing times helps us become more effective witnesses for Christ. It also helps maintain unity in the body of Christ as we focus on our true mission: winning souls, not arguments.