I just want to feel special… wanted..

I feel like I’ve been dealing with this for a while. I’m married and besides being married I still feel like I’m still wanting to feel wanted. I want to feel like someone is obsessed with me. Like deeply in love with me or just really wanting my attention. It’s like I beg for people’s attention and I don’t received it in return. Like just want someone that’s just wants ALL of me. Someone to text 25/8, ft whenever.. someone that can’t live without me.. don’t get me wrong, my husband loves me… sometimes I just feel like it’s mostly more about him than it is about me. My family isn’t always supportive or even present really. They are more “monitoring spirits” and I don’t like it so I choose to keep my life private. I want to share my life 100% with someone who genuinely cares to know… I’m probably blabbering really and I probably don’t make any sense😭 this is just all that I’ve been thinking about lately…. Can anyone relate?? #letschat #lemon8contest #Lemon8Diary

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... Read moreFeeling wanted and special is a common desire in romantic relationships, yet many people experience moments of insecurity and emotional disconnect. This longing for attention can stem from various factors, including past experiences and relationship dynamics. For instance, it's common for individuals to feel overshadowed by their partner's needs or overwhelmed by family expectations, leading to feelings of loneliness even when in a committed relationship. Understanding the root of these feelings is essential. Communication plays a vital role in fostering a deeper connection with your partner. Expressing your needs and desires transparently can help bridge emotional gaps, allowing both partners to feel valued and acknowledged. Additionally, seeking shared activities or moments of quality time can reignite the spark of intimacy, ensuring both individuals feel cherished. It's also crucial to remember that validation from within is vital. Cultivating self-love and recognizing your worth can contribute significantly to emotional well-being. Engaging in self-care practices or hobbies that bring joy can enhance your sense of individuality, which in turn can enrich your relationship. Remember, you're not alone in these feelings of wanting to feel special. Many people seek meaningful connections and strive to navigate the complexities of love and attention. Embrace the journey of discovering how to express yourself authentically while fostering healthier relationships along the way.

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I’m not married,all I can say is that start doing things by yourself. Meaning like start dating yourself,take yourself on dates, lil walks here & there. Movies,spa dates,travel in state & maybe later international. Just do for you what he ain’t doing.

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Just sit down your husband and talk to him about it. Let him know that you want to be chased is easy to get in the right the longer you’ve been with somebody and sometimes they think oh I got you so I don’t have to you know so have a conversation incorporate some surprises of Random

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