Love that’s meant to stay honors your boundaries without resistance.

It doesn’t require you to abandon yourself to be chosen.

If they’re ready, their presence will feel grounding — not activating.

Trust the wisdom you’ve earned. 🤍

My books are available for those ready to go deeper — gently. #healing #avoidantattachment #breakup #selfcare #selflove

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