Why such a hurry?

You will get there when you get there.

The thing about doing anything, is that we are always racing to the end. To the final result. This happens while doing any kind of household project, or those dreaded chores, to training, dieting, going to events, rushing home, dragging yourself to work, and on and on.

Some random stats about your day:

Sleep 7 - 9 hours a day (some people anyway, i'm lucky to get 5 lol)

Personal hygiene 1 - 2 hours

Work 8+ hours

Leisure and sports 4.5 - 5.5 hours (A large portion of that is directly related to TV)

Cleaning and Cooking 2 hours

Eating etc 1.5 hours

Commuting 1 hour (I'm 15 minutes and my wife is -3 minutes. Science!)

Maybe that comes to 24 maybe not, you math it. I'm not going to. Point is

Outside of actual sleep, how much of the day do we spend enjoying the moment or the process. We, on average, have 16 hours every day, where we can take pleasure in our lives. where we can be aware and be present, where we can appreciate the little things and enjoy the big.

But instead we squander it. If you're in rush hour traffic, there is little point in allowing yourself to be frustrated. You knew you were going to be in it, you know it will end eventually. I'm sure you planned for this right?!? Right? So why not make the most of it. Listen to some audio books or Sing your favorite song.

Or the dreaded laundry, dishes duo, you know it has to happen, you know it will have an end, so why try to rush through it? We tend to look at what we have already done, and what we have left to do, and so we are simultaneously living in both past and future, Talk about a mind screw! These are the sort of things that lead women to distraction and men to divorce. JK ... Or am I?

Lastly, Down time and the wonder that is TV land,or phone world. How long do we mindlessly watch TV or srcrol on our phone for hours on end only to end the day wishing you could have actually enjoyed it. Sitting there observing life instead of being life. (I do find myself guilty as charged too, and try to limit both) These things steal life if you're not careful. Again, points finger at self too.

So, bottom line. There is a lot of time in your day to be present, thankful and gods forbid, actually enjoy it. So go do that.

All the best,

Mindset

2025/8/8 Edited to

In our fast-paced society, the urge to rush to the finish line has become a common mindset, often resulting in missed opportunities to truly savor life's moments. The phrase "You will get there when you get there" serves as a gentle reminder to slow down and appreciate the journey rather than obsess over the destination. Daily activities such as household chores, commuting, and routine work can become repetitive stressors if we approach them with impatience and frustration. Statistics show that outside of sleep, people have approximately 16 waking hours daily to be present and engage in life. However, much of this time is squandered in mindless activities or a hurried mindset that detracts from genuine enjoyment. Whether stuck in rush hour traffic or facing tedious chores like laundry and dishes, embracing patience and mindful awareness can transform these moments into opportunities for relaxation, learning, or simple pleasure—such as listening to audiobooks or singing favorite songs. The concept of "Process Over Outcome," reflecting the OCR content "Process Over utcome JM Mindset.L_egion," encourages focusing on each step rather than fixating on the end result. This mindset helps reduce stress, increases satisfaction, and cultivates gratitude. Furthermore, excessive screen time spent passively watching TV or scrolling on phones often leaves individuals feeling unfulfilled. Being active participants in our lives rather than passive observers fosters a healthier, more engaged existence. Practicing mindfulness through daily activities enhances life quality by promoting awareness and appreciation of the "little things" and bigger achievements alike. This shift in perspective encourages enjoying the present moment, improving mental well-being, and strengthening relationships. Instead of thinking about what has been done or what’s left to be done, immerse fully in the current experience to avoid the cognitive dissonance of living simultaneously in the past and future. Ultimately, adopting a mindset that values the process encourages a balanced life where time is used wisely to foster happiness and fulfillment. By allowing ourselves to slow down, stay present, and appreciate each moment, we reclaim the precious time we have and enrich our daily lives.