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10 ways to observe. Is this Scrammer?

Looking for relationships with foreigners online requires a lot of caution.

10 short and easy-to-understand landmarks to check if the person you're talking to is "Scrammer":

💎 10 Scrammer observation points.

✅ 1.Perfect Cast Profile:

Often a handsome, very good-looking, stable career figure (e.g., American soldier, oil engineer, volunteer doctor) is used to build credibility and catch the eye.

✅ 2. Manic love is exaggerated:

I talked for a few days, I said love, I wanted to get married, I called "Honey, Wife, My Queen," and I never met the real person, or I even turned on the camera.

✅ 3. Not turning on the camera:

It is often claimed that the camera is broken, in a secret military base, bad internet, or urgent traffic every time you request a live video call.

✅ 4. Move to talk in another app immediately:

Try to quickly pull you out of the dating app to talk in * * WhatsApp * * or * * Line * * to avoid being banned from the dating app's monitoring system.

✅ 5. The language looks strange:

Even if you say English or American, the grammar is wrong, or the words that seem to be using a translation program (Google Translate).

✅ 6. The ultimate life story:

There are often dramas, such as deceased wives, single fathers, terminally ill parents, to trigger pity points and build emotional bonds.

✅ 7. Claims that there is a sudden money problem:

This is the peak! Credit cards are suspended while abroad, sick children need urgent surgery or customs duties.

✅ 8. Send an expensive gift:

Says to send you a lot of brand-name bags, jewelry, or cash, but finally an "officer" contacts you to transfer your fee or tax to get your stuff.

✅ 9. Accelerate and pressure:

If you start to suspect or deny money transfers, he will start using the settler "If you love me, you have to help me" or pretend to be angry to make you feel guilty.

✅ 10.The information on social media is empty:

If looking for Facebook or Instagram, there are usually a few photos, very few friends, or just created a new account.

💎 Iron rules to remember: 💎

"True love...You must not start by asking for money. "If there is any mention of money or property, assume that it is Scrammer.

# New hand line # Do not miss # Scammers # Love online

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