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How does that phrase sound to children?

"I'm not bad"

"○ ○ was saying bad things."

"I'm saying it for your sake."

At first glance, ordinary words.

But you know, children feel it properly.

I want to tell you as a trainer.

People move in response to words.

That's why the daily habit is really important.

For your sake,

Is it really "for the other"?

I became a mom and realized.

There were times when I just threw my anxiety at my children.

But once you realize it, you can change your words.

I am now working on my own and moving my life with my own words.

🌱 change of mom,

Change the future of children.

Words transmitted to children

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Challenging Mom

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2025/8/5 Edited to

私もかつては「私は悪くない」「○○さんが悪口言ってたよ」「あなたのためを思って言ってる」といった言葉を無意識に使っていました。今振り返ると、これらはすべて自分を守るためのクセであり、子どもにとってはあまりポジティブに響かないことに気づきました。特に繊細な子どもは、親の言葉や態度に敏感に反応します。私の言葉が子どもの心にどう影響しているのか考えながら、少しずつ言い換えていくことで、子どもがのびのびと育つ環境を作れると感じています。例えば、「カツカツ」という表現が気になる場合は、「余裕がない」「忙しい」など、ニュアンスの違う言葉に変えてみると良いでしょう。また、叱るときも怒鳴るのではなく、「あなたのために言ってる」と伝える際は、本当に子どものためになっているか自問自答しています。私は在宅ワークを始めてから、同じように挑戦するママたちと繋がり、自分の言葉のクセに気づくことができました。完璧でなくても一つずつ口癖を手放し、前向きな言葉を選ぶ練習をしています。ママの言葉は子どもの未来を変えます。まずは1センチずつ、自分の言葉や態度を見直し、子どもが安心して成長できる環境を作っていきましょう。止まらずに一歩ずつ進むことが、ママと子どもにとって大きな力になります。

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