Ranking 6 housewives dissatisfied with their husbands

Theme: "I'm lonely without my husband's conversation"

I've been married for more than ten years, and my family life is stable, but there is a void in my heart that cannot be filled by any means.

When we first got married, we talked a lot. Work complaints, holiday plans, silly TV impressions. There were days when we stayed up late and talked. But as the child was born and life became hectic, the content of the conversation changed to a clerical exchange such as "What's for dinner today?" "Did you take out the trash?"

Before I knew it, even if two people were sitting side by side at the table, only a few lines were exchanged. My husband was crazy about TV or smartphone, and even if I talked to him, he would end with "Hmm" and "That's right." At first, I told myself that I was busy, but gradually I became anxious that I was not interested in me anymore.

Loneliness is the moment when I feel that my heart is not communicating rather than the lack of conversation itself. No matter how hard I try to do housework and child-rearing, it is rare to get "Thank you" and "Thank you for your hard work." On the contrary, even when I get sick, just one word of "Are you okay?" It seems that I don't care any more. At such times, "What am I to my husband?," the back of my chest becomes cool and cold.

Of course, I know that my husband is not offended. It is also true that I am tired from work. So I can understand that "I do not have the energy to talk." Still, I know that "just having a one-word conversation will save you." No matter how busy you are, if you tell me "This happened today," no matter how tired you are, if you say "thank you" - that alone should shorten the distance of the heart.

If this continues, the couple may become a "housemate." I felt such a sense of crisis, so I started a small device. First, cut out your husband's favorite topic. My husband naturally tells me that it is a subject of interest, such as sports results or news articles. Next, increase the words of gratitude. When I told him, "Thank you for washing the dishes" and "I was saved by giving my child a bath," he replied, "No, not really." Even with that short exchange, I felt warmer than before.

Also, after putting the child to bed, I dared to make time to drink tea together. My husband, who did not let go of his smartphone at first, gradually put down the screen and started talking "Today is work..." I realized that the distance between my heart changes just by being conscious of "facing as a couple" even for a short time.

I'm sure I'm not the only one who feels loneliness in a marital relationship where there is no conversation. Many housewives should be living their daily lives with the same worries. But that's why I want to say it out loud - "Conversation is the lifeline of a couple." Exchanging words is not just information transmission, but an important act to connect hearts.

I am still far from a couple with an ideal conversation, but I do not intend to give up. When I feel lonely, I do not want to hold it in my arms, but I want to devise little by little. And someday I want to regain a relationship that makes me think that talking with you is the most enjoyable time. One from the camera roll:

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