Days shaken by the distance between mom friends😊

When you are raising children, you can naturally have "mom friends." Pick up and drop off at nursery school or kindergarten, standing talk in the park... If you notice it, you may have a face-to-face relationship every day. At first, it is easy to talk because there is a common point of "the same child-rearing generation," but if you make a mistake in the sense of distance, your heart may be 💦

When I talked about my child's lessons and grades with a mother friend, I sometimes felt depressed when I compared them. "That child can already write kanji" "They can even do butterflies by swimming..."

On the other hand, the relationship with my mom friend who only talks about small talk and the weather is strangely easy and comfortable. I realized that there is a relationship that can be relieved just by saying "It's hot today ~" "I'm going to be late to pick you up." The important thing is "not to force it." It is not the right answer to connect deeply, but there is no need to build a wall. You can choose a sense of distance that makes your heart feel safe 😊

The most reassuring place for children is the home. That's why I think it's more important than anything for mothers to be able to smile themselves. There are days when I get tired of relationships with my mom friends, but "I am me" is fine. I hope that I can spend my days cherishing the relationships that continue naturally 🌷

When you feel the same way, come back here 📌

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