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๐Ÿ’ญTitle: "The more tired the heart, the kinder the person"

Why am I so tired? "

The day you feel that way is the day you work too hard for someone else.

Whether at work or at home, I tend to keep an eye on the other person's complexion.

While I am proud of being able to use my mind,

Somewhere in my heart is always tingling.

Is there such a thing?

But, it's not because you're "weak" that you get tired easily,

It is a "high sensitivity" that can feel people's feelings in detail.

In psychology, it is called High Sensitivity (HSP).

It is also a born "talent for kindness."

For example, notice a small change in someone.

"Are you okay?" he asked.

It seems easy and not everyone can do it.

However, not only showing that kindness to yourself,

It causes "fatigue."

Give 100 to the other person and 0 to yourself.

That would wear your heart out, you know.

So just for today,

Why don't you make it a "day to get in a good mood"?

The time I used for people,

Just use a little for yourself.

You can share kindness with yourself.

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People who are aware of other people s pain should not overlook their own pain.

For those who are easily tired

HSP Girls

tired of empathy

# Take care of yourself

The talent of kindness

2025/11/2 Edited to

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