It’s not all glamorous ✨

Time to get vulnerable here… I pretty recently had a major change in my job situation where I am now working from home part time while trying to finish my PhD

At first I was really excited to work from home and thought it was gonna be the best (I mean it’s an introverts dream right?!).

Unfortunately, it has been a really hard transition for me. I have felt guilty that I’m not working enough, felt like my job isn’t “legit”, and have struggled to maintain a good routine.

Anyone else that works from home and loves it have any tips?? I would greatly appreciate it!!

#AskLemon8 #lemon8contest #workfromhome #jobtips #embracevulnerability

2025/7/15 Edited to

... Read moreOkay, so you've taken the plunge into working from home while tackling your PhD, and it's not quite the dream you imagined, right? I totally get it. That initial excitement can quickly turn into a mental juggle of guilt, isolation, and a constantly shifting routine. I remember thinking my 'work-from-home desk setup' would be my sanctuary, but sometimes it just felt like another battleground for my thesis. The 'realities of working from home' while deep in 'academic content' are often far from glamorous, and many of us are quietly 'navigating our PhD: challenges and strategies for thriving' in this unique setup. One of the biggest hurdles I faced was that nagging feeling of 'not working enough.' When your office is your living room, it's easy to blur the lines between work and life. What helped me immensely was implementing a strict 'start and end time' to my workday. Even if I wasn't at a physical office, I'd pretend I was. I’d get dressed, have my coffee, and then sit down to my laptop as if I was commuting. This small ritual helped signal to my brain that it was 'work mode.' I also found breaking down my PhD tasks into smaller, manageable chunks incredibly useful. Instead of 'write chapter 3,' I'd aim for 'research 3 articles for chapter 3' or 'write 500 words on section 2.' Celebrating these micro-wins, no matter how small, helped combat the guilt. Maintaining a routine is critical when you're 'working from home on your PhD.' It's not just about when you work, but also when you step away. I scheduled regular breaks, including a proper lunch away from my desk. Sometimes, I’d even take a short walk to mimic leaving the office. This helped clear my head and prevented burnout. Another thing I learned was the importance of clear boundaries. My partner and friends learned that just because I was home, didn't mean I was always available. Having a dedicated 'work-from-home desk setup' – even if it’s just a corner of a room – helps reinforce those boundaries, both for yourself and for others. It tells your brain, 'This is where academic work happens.' The feeling that your job isn't 'legit' or the isolation can also be tough. For me, connecting with other PhD students, even virtually, made a huge difference. Sharing struggles and tips made me feel less alone and more validated. We’d set up virtual co-working sessions or quick coffee chats. This helped replace some of the casual interactions you miss from a physical environment. Don't be afraid to reach out to your supervisor or peers if you're struggling; chances are, they've been there too or know someone who has. Remember, 'navigating your PhD' is a marathon, and it's okay to seek support. You're doing challenging work, and it absolutely is legitimate, even if you're doing it in your pajamas sometimes!

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