It's okay if Xmas wasn't perfect 🫶
I didn't have an abundance of funds this year for Christmas. I had to pick toys for my babies in a pretty calculated way to make sure I was getting things they liked, but they'd also have more than just one present to open.
I honestly feel guilty and depressed, more than I'd like to admit.
I lost my mom when I was young, and she was a Christmas fanatic. She went all out even when she didn't have the means to make it happen.
I hope my kids know how much I love them. They're a little young to understand why some people struggle during the holidays.
I also hope that next year I'm able to give them more. I've been working so hard on developing my business, but good things take time.
I know we'll be okay, I know I love my kids, and I know everything happens for a reason.
"To my babies: Stay strong. I'll be well soon · And to the rest of the world: God gave you new shoes. To fit you. So put 'em on and wear 'em. Be yourself, man" - Eminem
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