❤️🩹 Postpartum needs to be more known! ❤️🩹
I completely underestimated how hard postpartum would hit me after giving birth. I definitely heard a lot and my doctors did encourage me to start taking antidepressants before giving birth but i didn’t want to risk harming my baby in any way.
little did i know choosing not to take them would end up harming him more :/
I have always and will always love my son with all my heart but for a few months i really despised being a mother so badly & I hated myself for feeling that way. Not wanting to tell anyone what i was going through afraid to be judged, I went on being a miserable mother. It was noticeable to not only me but my son and husband as well. it was ruining our relationship:(
Thankfully my family was able to tell i was struggling and pushed me back into therapy where i finally found someone i genuinely love spilling all my tea to and not feel judged at all! She provided me with medication that has helped me significantly since then and im not able to enjoy being a mother and make long lasting happy memories with my son🩵
Always remember postpartum is sooo extremely real and needs to be taken a lot more seriously, not only by mothers but their families as well! Feel free to reach out to me if you want to get anything off your chest judgment free and never be afraid to ask for help. you’re doing amazing mama ❤️🩹
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Reading this powerful story really hit home for me. It's so important to talk about the reality of postpartum, and how it can manifest in so many different ways. Many of us, myself included, often hear about the 'baby blues' and think that's the extent of it. But as this article bravely shares, postpartum mental illnesses are incredibly real and can be complex. Understanding the different types can be the first step toward recognizing what you or a loved one might be experiencing and, crucially, seeking the right support. Beyond the common 'baby blues' which affect up to 80% of new mothers and typically fade within two weeks, there are more significant postpartum mental health challenges that warrant serious attention. These aren't just 'feelings' – they are medical conditions that can profoundly impact a new parent's well-being and their ability to bond with their baby. One of the most widely recognized is Postpartum Depression (PPD). This is much more than feeling a bit sad or tired. PPD can involve persistent sadness, anxiety, irritability, feelings of hopelessness, severe mood swings, changes in sleep and appetite, difficulty bonding with the baby, and even thoughts of self-harm or harming the baby. It can start anytime within the first year after childbirth and can last for months or even longer if untreated. It’s a heavy burden, and it feels like a constant weight. Then there's Postpartum Anxiety (PPA), which often goes hand-in-hand with PPD or can occur on its own. Imagine constant, overwhelming worry about the baby's health or safety, panic attacks, a racing heart, shortness of breath, and an inability to relax. It's an exhausting state of hyper-vigilance. Related to anxiety is Postpartum Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (POCD). This isn't just about being a neat freak; it involves intrusive, unwanted thoughts or images, often distressing, about harm coming to the baby, followed by compulsive actions like excessive cleaning, checking, or rearranging to prevent those fears from coming true. It can feel incredibly isolating and shameful. On the rarer, but most severe end of the spectrum, is Postpartum Psychosis (PPP). This is a medical emergency characterized by hallucinations, delusions, paranoia, rapid mood swings, and disorganized thinking. It usually develops quickly after birth and requires immediate professional help. While terrifying, it's treatable, and early intervention is key. What's crucial to remember about all these postpartum mental illnesses (as the image states, 'no matter how/what you feel, it's completely normal and only temporary. Always reach out for support!') is that they are not a sign of weakness or a reflection of your love for your child. They are health conditions, and just like any other health condition, they need care and treatment. This brave article highlights how finding the right therapist and medication can be life-changing. My own experience taught me that opening up, even when it feels impossible, is the first step towards healing. Don't suffer in silence. Your family, friends, and healthcare providers are there to help you navigate these choppy waters. You deserve to feel joy in motherhood, and with support, it is absolutely possible to get there.



i love my strong mom ❤️💪🏽