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Goodbye perfectionism! Magic to cut off the negative loop by taking a step forward

Too hard,

Are you stuck in reverse? 😢

In my last video.

By seeking too much perfection.

The brain maintains the status quo.

apply a powerful brake

how the worst ending works

i told you.

This time, that terrible

Curses and negative loops

About Gatsun and [cutting magic]

I will explain!

So I can look back later,

Save 🔖 now

Please check it out.

🧠 perfectionism.

"Standard" to reset immediately

"Because I still have a long way to go,

You have to be more perfect... "

That's how you stop acting.

The more serious people,

I can't help the people I want to help,

Big regrets later

There are things I do.

I was like that in the past.

Actually, to get out of there.

This is the magic standard.

60% of yourself is 120% of someone else.

① Leave it at 60% and proceed cautiously

② Unexpected results

(The other person will be happy 120%) is waiting

③ "This was good."

The programming of the brain is rewritten

You don't have to make it 100% perfect.

The important thing is that even if you are scared

The courage to take a step forward with the current 60%.

That said,

It's hard to make a decision, isn't it?

So next time,

Force your curse to be lifted

We will deliver [3 magic words]!

Follow ❤️ not to miss it

Please wait ✨

💬 your now

What is the "Perfectionism Level"?

Real moyamoya, please in the comment section

Please spit it out!

I will reply 😊

Goal Achieved The Perfectionism # mindset # self-disclosure Rewriting the subconscious

6 days agoEdited to

... Read more私も以前は強い完璧主義で、何かを始めるたびに「もっと完璧にしなければ」と自分を追い込み、前に進めない悩みを抱えていました。ですが、ある時「自分はまだ完璧じゃないから」と行動を止めることが、かえってチャンスを逃し大きな後悔につながると気づいたのです。 この記事で紹介されている【自分の60%は、誰かの120%】という考え方は、とても現実的で実践しやすい魔法の基準だと思います。私も最初は恐る恐る自分の60%で行動してみました。すると驚いたことに、その不完全な自分の行動が周囲の人にとっては大いに喜ばれ、想像以上の良い反応が返ってきたのです。 これは脳の固定観念を変える大切な一歩でした。完璧な状態でなければ意味がないという思い込みを手放し、「今できる最善」で挑戦することで、自分の成長や周囲への貢献がぐっと広がりました。 完璧主義からくる「呪い」を断ち切るためには、失敗を恐れず小さく踏み出す勇気を持つことが鍵です。60%の自分が見せる一歩を大切にし、その一歩が誰かの120%の幸せになっていることを実感できれば、自然と行動の負のスパイラルも断ち切れます。 ぜひあなたも「完璧さ」に縛られすぎず、自分のペースで勇気ある一歩を踏み出してみてください。そうすることで思いもよらない良い結果を引き寄せ、自己評価やマインドセットの書き換えに繋がるはずです。次回の【3つの魔法の言葉】も楽しみにして、フォローしておくと行動力アップに役立ちますよ。

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