Guys… this “friend” (need help from strangers :3)

Dealing with friendships that feel confusing or hurtful can be really tough, especially when it involves something you’re passionate about like a fandom. I’ve been in situations where I shared something I loved, only to have my friend dismiss it or even criticize it after initially showing interest. It makes you question their intentions and whether they truly respect your feelings. One takeaway I’ve learned is that it’s okay to feel conflicted — friendships aren’t always perfect, and not everyone will understand your interests or emotions the way you do. When someone repeatedly disrespects your preferences or talks negatively about things you like, it can sting deeply. Mental boundaries are important; it’s healthy to protect your emotional well-being by choosing to minimize contact or distance yourself if the negativity outweighs the support. I once hesitated to drop a friend who was disrespectful, but reflecting on how much stress it caused me helped me realize it was best to let go for my own peace. Also, hear out different perspectives, like what others say about that person, but don’t rely solely on gossip to make your decision. Instead, focus on how the friendship makes you feel. If you feel sad, drained, or undervalued, those are valid signs to reconsider the relationship. It’s also helpful to communicate your concerns honestly and see if the other person is willing to respect your feelings and boundaries. On a positive note, even complicated friendships sometimes introduce us to great things — like new music or shows — which is a reminder to cherish the good moments but stay cautious of red flags. Ultimately, friendships should be supportive and uplifting. If they’re not, it’s okay to step back, especially if you’re moving to a new school or phase in life. Remember, you deserve friends who appreciate you for who you are and share in your interests without judgment. Taking care of yourself emotionally should always come first.