Are you in love... or are you evaluating value for money?
In the world of work,
You could be like a CEO strategist.
Think of ROI as seeing risk before anyone else.
Decide on information, not emotion.
But man... not a project.
Love... is not an investment portfolio.
What is the problem with job talent?
Get used to "control."
In the task, if the system is well placed, the results are often predictable.
In a relationship, you can't control the other person 100%.
The more you try to control, the farther away.
Used to "measurable returns."
Work = force → result
Love = mind → Maybe not getting anything back as much as you think.
And the brain starts asking, "Is it worth it?"
Used to "risk assessment."
You're good at reading red flags.
But sometimes you accidentally treat sincere people like business risks.
He's just a normal human being.
Use the brain to precede the mind all the time.
You analyze every word.
Assess the feasibility.
Plan an exit strategy since it's not serious.
It's safe.
But it's not deep.
Love requires "formulaic courage."
It is a disadvantage in some strokes.
Allow to be fragile
I don't know the results.
And this is something that a lot of great people are not good at.
Because the whole life is trained to "never miss."
The truth to be honest is,
Sometimes you're not single because no one is good enough.
But you may be running a relationship like a deal with a investor.
A good relationship is not a winning deal.
But it's the area where they both reduce their armor.
You're already very good on the job field.
Maybe in the field of love.
You don't have to be good.
You just have to be real.
And brave enough to love.
Without calculating everything until exhausted.
If to give a brief, unworldly summary:
Work requires a brain.
Love requires heart
And smart enough people know when to put Excel down and look at each other.
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