I feel like no job is right for me 😭

I am a smart person and I know that I am able to study and get a degree, but there isn't a single job that I would want, I have no idea what to do. I have interests but they are in jobs that don't pay well, and the jobs that do pay well like engineer, lawyer etc... I just have no interest in them, they're not me. Should I study and get a job that pays well but feel miserable 5 days a week for the rest of my life, or have a job that is tolerable but that doesn't pay well and doesn't allow me to have a life outside work. I feel like I'm losing no matter what.

What do you do for a living? Maybe it will give me ideas idk

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2024/2/27 Edited to

... Read moreNavigating the modern job market can be challenging, especially when your passions don't align with lucrative career paths. Many individuals grapple with similar concerns, feeling torn between pursuing their interests and securing a stable income. It's essential to reflect on what truly matters to you: career satisfaction or financial security? If you're feeling lost, consider exploring various options while seeking professions related to your interests. Job shadowing or internships in fields you find appealing, even if they offer lower pay, might provide clarity on whether you'd enjoy those roles long-term. Sometimes, combining a higher-paying job with a side project related to your passion can be a viable solution, allowing you to maintain financial stability while pursuing what you love. Additionally, speaking to professionals in different industries can provide valuable insight. Engaging in forums or communities related to career advice, like #AskLemon8, can lead to discovering opportunities you hadn't considered. Remember, it’s about finding a balance that works for you—consider defining your priorities clearly. Is it essential to love your job, or do you feel compelled to earn a certain salary? Understanding this can help guide your decisions. Also, mental health is crucial; feeling miserable at work can take a toll on your well-being, so don’t hesitate to seek roles that may present a better work-life balance, even if they pay less. Ultimately, there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. Assess your situation, explore the landscape of available jobs, and don’t shy away from reaching out for guidance from those who’ve faced similar dilemmas.

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What sorts of areas are you interested in?? Maybe we could help brainstorm!

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Get a job that you’re interested in. Don’t pick a career that you’re uninterested in and force yourself to do for the money. When I was in high school I wanted to be a writer, and I was really good at it, but bc I knew it can take years or even decades for a writer to be successful, thus leaving them broke or working

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