Know thy self
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Thank you for following; my title is in response to the prompt:
How do I deal with my partners family?
While I don’t think I goto into the right algo, my advice is,
If his mom is problematic, no matter how patient you are, she is never going to change.
If you can’t accept that, then he isn’t the man for you. She will notice your distaste and rather than be accountable (hard for boy moms/some women) she will probably make u the villain/enemy1 while playing victim.
If you notice this while dating him, run. She is older than you and has had a lot of practice with psychologically manipulating her child. And when it comes to mind games with adult children, if mommy still beats gf/wifey, he is not YOUR problem; he is hers. He belongs to her. Let them be. Walk away. Keep your pride and head held high.
Never let anyone tilt your crown. Respect is earned.
























































































These are some beautiful photos