Feeling Real Gangsta
I’m tired of being tried by dudes pretending that they want something solid s d then being narcissistic, gaslighting me, breadcrumbing me or flat out ghosting me.
This is why I haven’t dated or been intimate since December 2022.
It didn’t take a lot of men doing this to me before I recognized patterns I was allowing.
No, I wasn’t intimately (read physically) involved with all of them but it still did enough damage to me to make an impression.
Recently, I decided to go out on a limb and give someone a chance and it’s proving exactly why me making a decision to be solo was pertinent in my healing.
I am not for games AT ALL!
I am already experiencing the ghosting, ignoring my complaints and narcissistic tendencies and it’s a no from me!
i’m not even sure if he has any redeeming qualities because it hasn’t been long enough.
I know one thing, I’m not putting up with it.
So I have absolutely no issues with going back into hiatus and being a solo artist again.
Sure, the prospect of finding someone with everything that I’m going through and having a solid mate was awesome, but I walk in realism.
I can’t afford not to walk in realism.
I have too much at steak when it comes to my mind, body and spirit.
This is what makes me get real gutter, gangster, and ruthless.
Then, nobody stand a chance.
I will definitely keep you posted as this person is definitely calling their self trying to make it turnaround, but I haven’t seen any changes.
The only thing I understand is changed behavior.
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In today's fast-paced dating scene, many individuals face similar challenges of toxicity and emotional turmoil. Understanding the signs of narcissism, ghosting, and breadcrumbing can be crucial in protecting one’s mental health. It's essential to prioritize self-care and recognize when a relationship may harm your well-being. Taking time for self-reflection after a series of disappointing interactions can often lead to personal growth and stronger boundaries. Engaging in hobbies or interests during periods of solitude enriches your life, fosters independence, and cultivates self-love. By setting realistic expectations for future partners and learning to trust your instincts, you prepare yourself for healthier connections. Furthermore, seeking support from friends and communities can provide valuable insights and encouragement during tough times. Remember, it's perfectly acceptable to take a break from dating to focus on yourself and your journey. True happiness comes from within, and leveraging that realization can pave the way to more fulfilling relationships in the future.
