Liking girls sucks :/ (sometimes)
i just wanted to vent rq . so yea thanks if you’re here loll .
long story short ive been liking and dealing with this girl on and off for almost a year atp . she would randomly not answer texts and that was the main reason we would fall out . because i don’t want to feel like im chasing you and you don’t even like me or consider how that makes me feel .
she claimed/claims she likes me so much but then does things like this . when we met i didn’t have a car and she lives in a different city so it wasn’t easy for us to meet . after the last fall off i decided to leave it alone for a while .
but not too long ago i was missing her a little extra and decided to text her apologizing for any misunderstanding . she took accountability for her inconsistency and said she really likes me .
we started talking again but barely because she would again “ghost” me .
my therapist suggested to ask to go on a date so we could meet in person and maybe that’d make things different . I eventually did and we planned for today , she said she was always free for me . so i got my hopes up until today . as you can see in the screenshot how that went .
it is now 8:30 pm and still no answer so it’s safe to say i won’t be going on that date , im kinda bummed out because i was excited i was finally gonna see her in person and had hope itd make things better . but unfortunately i was wrong .
this has happened to me by multiple girls it never really seemed to occur for guys at least in my experience . as someone who so badly wants to experience a deep connection with a women it’s very upsetting how this is always how things end up 🫤 .
but that’s my rant , thank you for reading 🤍
In today's fast-paced dating world, many individuals face similar challenges when it comes to forming genuine connections. Ghosting, or suddenly cutting off communication, has become a common occurrence, leaving many feeling confused and disheartened. Studies indicate that ghosting can significantly impact mental health, leading to feelings of rejection and loneliness. To foster healthier relationships, experts recommend clear communication, setting boundaries, and being straightforward about intentions. Additionally, understanding that everyone has different communication styles can help mitigate misunderstandings. Engaging in open discussions can pave the way for deeper connections, as vulnerability can create trust between partners. Recognizing these challenges and being proactive can lead to more fulfilling relationship experiences, ultimately helping individuals find the deep connections they desire. Remember, it's essential to prioritize self-care and seek support when facing emotional turmoil in dating scenarios.
Honestly girl you need to go for a soft masc. they’ll never do you wrong. Wellll that kind of depends. Maybe broaden your horizons with the type of women to talk to and narrow down your type in women from there