Fun fact: I’m a triplet🥰

You asked what it's like being a triplet, and while I said 'normal,' there are definitely unique challenges and triumphs that come with sharing your life with two others right from the start. I remember when we were little babies, we were always together, dressed similarly, and I think that set the tone for a lot of our early years. As we grew older, especially when school started, things got interesting! Navigating school as a triplet, whether you're three boys or a mix like us (two women and one man, as adults!), comes with its own rulebook. One of the biggest questions was always, 'Should we be in the same class or different ones?' For us, it was a mix. Sometimes we were together, which was great for support during tests, but it also meant we were constantly compared. When we were separated, it was a chance to build individual friendships and identities, which I think was crucial. My biggest tip for any triplet (or their parents!) navigating school is to advocate for what works best for each child. Don't be afraid to ask for different classes if one triplet thrives on independence, or the same class if they benefit from constant support. Then there's the constant assumption that you're all the same. Teachers would mix up our names a lot, especially in elementary school. We learned to laugh it off, but it did make us work harder to show our unique personalities. Homework time was surprisingly collaborative! We'd often tackle assignments together, explaining concepts to each other, which definitely made learning easier. Beyond school, the 'desafios y retos' (challenges and struggles) of triplet life are pretty constant. Personal space? What's that?! Growing up, everything was shared – toys, clothes, and even attention. Learning to compromise and share became second nature, but there were definitely squabbles over who got the last cookie or the front seat in the car. Establishing individuality was a big one. We each had to find our own hobbies, our own friend groups, and our own style. It’s easy to get lumped together as 'the triplets,' so consciously seeking out what makes each of us unique was important. Despite the challenges, the bond we share is truly something special. We've been through everything together, from those early baby days to navigating adulthood. Having two built-in best friends who understand your experiences on such a deep level is a gift. We celebrate our birthdays together every year, and it’s a constant reminder of how lucky I am to have entered the world alongside them. It's a journey filled with laughter, occasional arguments, and an unbreakable connection that I wouldn't trade for anything.