Had your first child at 18 too soon?
18 is the age most people still learn, still try, still miss.
But you have to skip that mode and enter "responsible" mode immediately.
It's no small thing. And not everyone will survive.
The more important question is
It's not "too fast."
"How do you deal with that kind of speed?"
The fact that people rarely say
Someone with a slow child might find himself first.
But people with fast children are forced to grow without buttons.
The advantages of having a baby at 18
You still have the strength. There's time.
Today, aged 29, the baby is almost overgrown.
In a few years, you are not yet 40, but the baby is becoming an adult, life still has a new round for you to choose from again.
An exchange to accept.
Maybe miss something, freedom, innocence, trial and error without thinking about anyone.
Speed does not define whether life is "good or bad."
The defining thing is
Not leaving responsibility and not leaving yourself.
And getting here, that's no coincidence.
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