The harsh truth that literally no one wants to hear is that it is both sides that need to be responsible, accountable, and mature towards one another, that think beyond themselves, that will learn to fill in the weaknesses of each other, and that will also submit to each other, that YAHWEH EL ELOHIM Himself wants for humankind, and not not matriarchy, patriarchy, or fake gender ideologies in the lives of people, period, full stop.