Be CAREFUL what you say to people... here is WHY
Your subconscious mind
does not neatly separate
who a conversation is about
when you speak.
It absorbs the words
and the emotion with them.
So when you speak negativity
about others
or about yourself...
you train your mind
to look for more of it (think how a
social media algorithm
keeps showing you what you
have indicated that you like to see)
The crazy part is…the people around you
start connecting YOU
to the words you keep speaking (their subconscious minds doesn’t separate either).
So know this about people...
your words are not just describing your mindset...
they are shaping your mind (and what it looks for)
While simultaneously teaching people
who you really are.
Navigating Humans Consulting by Scott Munroe
From personal experience, I've noticed that the way we talk about ourselves and others profoundly influences our daily mindset and interactions. When I started consciously reducing negative speech—both about people and my own challenges—I found a significant shift in my outlook. It felt like my mind was no longer attuned to negativity but instead began spotting opportunities and positive cues that I had previously overlooked. The concept that our subconscious mind does not separate subjects in conversation is fascinating and true to life. For example, when we complain about others or situations, those words embed themselves in our subconscious, shaping what we expect and notice going forward. This is similar to how social media algorithms show us content they think we’d like, expertly picking up on our verbal cues. Another surprising aspect is how people around us begin to associate us with the words we frequently use. If we continually speak negatively, even without realizing it, others’ subconscious minds connect those words back to us, subtly affecting their perception and our interactions. This realization motivated me to be more mindful about my language, not just for my own mental health but also for the quality of my relationships. I remember a time when I caught myself frequently criticizing others. After learning about this effect, I made an effort to shift to more constructive conversations. The improvement in how people responded to me was noticeable. They seemed more open and positive, reflecting the change in my mindset. The quote from the image—"WHEN YOU POINT OUT THE NEGATIVITY IN OTHERS... THERE ARE THREE FINGERS POINTING BACK AT YOU."—is a powerful reminder that often, our judgments reveal more about our inner state than about others. Incorporating this awareness into daily life encourages a healthier, more positive mental environment and fosters better human connections. It’s a small practice that can lead to significant improvements in both personal growth and social interactions.
