Can’t stand people that push others boundaries…

Am i the only one that finds it such a turn off when someone keeps pushing my boundaries that I’m talking to? Like for example this one guy wants me to meet up with him so badly today and i already told him i don’t meet people at their house unless I’ve known them for a while, but gave him the option to meet for dinner or drinks and he didn’t want that. He shrugged it off, saying some bullshit like it doesn’t hurt to try something new. Then he keeps saying comments along the lines of he wishes i would come see him among, i told him i won’t be doing much of anything.

Like why is it so hard to find decent people that respect boundaries? It is the biggest turn off ever.

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2024/4/23 Edited to

... Read moreIn today's fast-paced dating world, respecting personal boundaries is crucial for building healthy relationships. Many people encounter challenges when dating, particularly when potential partners push for intimacy or meetings before proper trust is established. Such disregard for boundaries can lead to feelings of discomfort and frustration. Effective communication is essential to ensure that both parties understand each other's limits. Discussing comfort levels openly can prevent misunderstandings and foster mutual respect. When someone ignores these boundaries, it raises questions about their intentions and respect for the other person's feelings. Developing personal strategies for addressing such situations is beneficial; for example, confidently asserting one's own limits, seeking support from friends, or, if necessary, disengaging from interactions that feel unsafe. Remember, establishing relationships should be based on mutual understanding and respect, not pressure. By prioritizing your comfort and communicating needs clearly, you can navigate the dating landscape more effectively and avoid encounters that leave you feeling uneasy.

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selma

Is this normal if I send the pic of myself and he already said wow ur pretty then flirts with me

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Beraliz_et

I agreee 💯% with you. No is No. This guy asks me “why not” and gives me a million “solutions” in order for me to go with him or be with him….like NO IS NO. 😐😐😐