Sometimes in relationships or potential relationships, people give mixed signals—saying they don't want a relationship but acting otherwise. When you encounter this, it's natural to feel confused or hurt. From personal experience, the best approach is to focus on yourself and your own growth. This means engaging in activities that make you happy, pursuing your hobbies, and investing time in your well-being. Rather than trying to decode or justify someone else's intentions, turning inward empowers you. I found that when I stopped waiting on someone else’s uncertainty and started working on my own goals, I felt more confident and less emotionally dependent. Self-love and self-respect act as shields against unhealthy emotional attachments. It’s also helpful to surround yourself with supportive friends who encourage your independence. Social media and apps like TikTok and hashtags such as #notyours or #blowthisup show that many people share these experiences, reminding us we’re not alone. The key takeaway is that your worth isn't tied to waiting for someone else's commitment. You are enough on your own, and clarity often comes when you give yourself the space to focus solely on your happiness and growth.