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Stop waiting for closure. He IS the closure. 🖤

Stop waiting for closure. He IS the closure. The way he left told you everything you needed to know. 🖤

#closure #movingon #realtalk #datingadvice #nextchapterher

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once you accept that closure isn’t something you can be given, but rather something you create for yourself, it gets much easier. it’s good to get a better understanding of why the breakup happened and what was going on with your ex for sure, but not everyone gets that privilege. follow for mor

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