this is my second marriage, need to vent 🙃
It’s a long post I’m sorry!
Okay so I’m engaged to the love of my life, and he said I can wear whatever color I want to OUR wedding…. But I have family members telling me I can’t wear white or any shade close to that because I’ve been married once ( divorced less than a year later because I was his second choice ) anyway I didn’t get an actual wedding ceremony or anything with my first because it was rushed and he “wanted” it but i didn’t ( abusive relationship).. but I really want to experience wearing white or something close like that… am I wrong for wanting to wear some shade of white to my own wedding???
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