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A couple sits at a table, with text overlay asking if a boyfriend calling his mom three times a day is a red or green flag. The man holds a phone, and the woman's hand is visible.
A couple sits at a table, with text overlay questioning if a boyfriend's frequent calls to his mom indicate healthy attachment or a red flag. The man holds a phone, and the woman's hand is visible.
Two people's feet are shown on rocks near water, with text overlay discussing whether a boyfriend's strong family values are positive or if it feels like dating a 'second mom,' asking for opinions on red or green flag.
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Red flag or green???

Honestly, when I first started dating my man, I noticed he called his mom at least three times a day. At first I thought it was cute—like wow, he really respects his mom and wants to stay close. But then I started questioning… is this too much? 🤔 Does it mean he’s overly attached, or is it just his way of showing love? Personally, I see it as a green flag, but sometimes I wonder how it plays out long-term. What do you think, besties—red flag or green flag?

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Lilac Adams

I think it’s only a red flag if his mom is overly involved in your relationship, and if he prioritizes his relationship with his mom over yours.

2025/9/25
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Abbigail

Mamas boys are an immediate HELL NO from me.

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