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A woman with curly hair smiles widely, holding a phone, with text overlay "I just turned 31 and heres my ADVICE from a girl who re-invents herself every year" and "50% CUTE 50% PSYCHO 100% LIBRA" on her shirt.
A woman with curly hair looks out of a car window, holding a phone, with text overlay "you don't have to be superwoman. sacrificing yourself earns you no reward. let people help you & delegate often."
A woman with curly hair and tattoos sits in a car, wearing a 'BRASIL' tank top, with text overlay "The voice in your head is a liar. You're not lazy, behind or unlovable. You're doing the best with the cards you're dealt."
A woman with long dark hair smiles, showing her teeth, with text overlay "discernment is everything. Practice it Know when to leave the party, the job, the situationship ..."
A three-panel image of a woman's face, with text overlay "You don't need to prove you've changed. people will notice when their access to you no longer comes with explanation or apology."
Two women hug each other against a gray brick wall, one with blonde curly hair and tattoos, the other with dark braids, with text overlay "community is healing. dont allow a few bad experiences to have you thinking everyone will harm you."
A woman stands in a grassy yard with her arms raised towards a cloudy blue sky and trees, with text overlay "Stop waiting to feel ready. Half the doors in my life opened because I knocked while still scared. no's aren't always bad, but they always steer you where you're supposed be."
A woman with braids and closed eyes holds a fan while a man with dreadlocks and a hat stands behind her, with text overlay "you actually can choose your family. you deserve people who love & support you."
A view from an airplane window showing airplane wings and other planes at an airport under a blue sky, with text overlay "Travel as often as possible (weekend trips count). you dont need a full week off to deserve a quick refresh."
A blurred image of a woman's face with red and blue light effects, with text overlay "Learn the art of detachment, it will save you. control what you can. Leave the rest."
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I just turned 31.. here’s my advice as a girl who re-invents herself every year 🩷

To know me five years ago, you wouldn’t even recognize the person that you see today. I was severely depressed, anxious, trying to hold a life together that wasn’t meant for me. If I’m being honest I had no idea what 30 would look like.

Some of it has been filled with is grief from losing relationships I thought I’d have for life.

Betraying myself sometimes to make others happy while I suffered.

Being directionless & alone.

Losing jobs and money

But it’s also been filled with love and new communities when I lost the old ones

Sticking to my boundaries & goals

changing the things I know I can, leave what I can’t and the wisdom to know the difference.

People who wanna see me win ( personally and my internet cousins 🥹🩷 I love yall sm)

It truly does get better. You just gotta stick around long enough to experience it.

#birthdaygirl #adviceforwomen #fyp #lifeadvice #lifelessons

2025/10/7 Edited to

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Happy Belated Birthday!

2025/11/6
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