The family I was given and the family I made. Atlas, Esme, Raphael, and me. That's the whole list.
Phoenix kid. Army. Afghanistan, Korea, Italy, Japan, Alaska. Came home and nobody was holding a net, so I built one. Sales, then real estate, then a license and a book of business in the best state in the country. New Jersey. Say what you want.
Somewhere in there I jumped out of a plane and found out I liked it.
Then came Atlas. Kid already has the fedora, already wears a suit better than I do, already looks at heights like they owe him something. He's going to be an adrenaline junkie and I have no plans to talk him out of it.
Everything else is noise.
#FamilyFirst #boydad #chooseyourfamily #DadLife #FamilyIsEverything
Living a life filled with diverse experiences like military deployment across Afghanistan, Korea, Italy, Japan, and Alaska truly shapes a unique perspective on family and purpose. After returning home from service, the absence of clear support is a challenge many veterans face, but creating one's own network and career path is empowering. Transitioning through sales to real estate, obtaining a license in New Jersey—often cited as the best state for its opportunities—reflects resilience and dedication. Jumping out of a plane and discovering a love for skydiving adds an adrenaline-fueled dimension that mirrors the adventurous spirit passed down to a son like Atlas. Watching your child don a fedora, suit up elegantly, and fearlessly face heights as if owed something speaks to the importance of encouraging independence and courage. Life’s noise fades when priorities center on family, the chosen and given bonds that define us. In embracing #FamilyFirst, #boydad, and #DadLife, the message resonates deeply with those balancing past struggles, present responsibilities, and future hopes. Choosing your family extends beyond bloodlines and is a powerful testament to the communities we build and cherish. This personal story encourages others to reflect on their journeys, support networks, and savor the adventure that life with loved ones brings.