Hey everyone! So, diving deeper into my '2016 vs. 2026' journey, it's been such an eye-opening experience to really sit down and reflect on a full decade of life. When I looked at that photo of me at 20, rocking a black tank top with a white heart and 'MERMAID' written on it, taking a mirror selfie in my old bathroom, I couldn't help but smile. It’s funny how a simple picture can bring back a flood of memories and feelings. Fast forward to now, and getting ready for 30 in 2026, taking a selfie under a graffiti-covered concrete bridge, wearing my favorite green top and glasses – it’s a whole different vibe, but still so authentically me. This whole process has made me realize the incredible value of documenting our lives, even the seemingly small moments. If you're thinking of doing your own 'then and now' challenge, here are a few things I've learned. First, don't overthink it! Just snap those photos, whether it’s a spontaneous mirror selfie or a planned shot in a favorite spot. The beauty is in the authenticity. Try to capture your essence – what you're wearing, your surroundings, your expression. These details, like my 'MERMAID' tank top or that graffiti bridge, become little anchors to memories. Becoming a mom has been the biggest game-changer this past decade. My priorities shifted, my definition of 'fun' evolved, and my heart grew in ways I never imagined. For all the fellow moms out there, celebrating those personal milestones alongside your kids' milestones is so important. It’s not selfish; it’s a reminder that you’re still you, evolving and growing, even amidst the beautiful chaos of motherhood. I've also learned so much about self-care and embracing who I am. At 20, I was probably more concerned with appearances. Now, heading into 30, wearing my glasses proudly and feeling comfortable in my own skin, there’s a quiet confidence that wasn’t there before. It's about finding joy in simple things, like a sunny day or a quiet moment to myself. Don't forget to celebrate your own glow-up, whatever that means for you – whether it's career achievements, personal growth, or just finding your true style. Looking ahead to 2026 and beyond, I’m excited for what’s next. This reflection isn’t just about looking back, but also about appreciating the present and setting intentions for the future. What kind of person do I want to be at 30? What new adventures await? I hope my journey inspires you to take a moment, look at your own 'then and now,' and celebrate all the incredible steps you've taken.


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