The Fight to Grow article "When I Have to Fight to Grow"

"When I Have to Fight to Grow Up: Adult Lessons That No One Tells Us"

As a child, we used to think that adults were the ones who knew everything...

There are good jobs, stable income, answers to all problems, and a neat life like the ones we've seen in commercials, but as we grow up to that point, we realize that adulthood is a way to survive in a world with no fixed instructions, and no one is responsible for our lives anymore.

The world, in fact, is not easy. The real world is tired. And the real world, it never stops spinning for anyone.

🌿 The pain that comes with growing up.

We started losing someone for no reason.

We have to choose the best from choices that are nothing good or pleasant to us.

We have to work, even if we don't love it.

We have to be strong, both inside are falling apart.

The feeling of isolation, confusion, fatigue is something that almost everyone will face as they get older and older.

No one tells us that adulthood comes with more "mental burden" than physically.

But in that uncertainty, we can gradually support ourselves and create a new path that is ourselves.

♨ How to live a happy life, even on a day when the world is not beautiful

1. Explore yourself deeper than you feel.

Don't just ask, "How am I feeling today?"

But ask, "Why do I feel this way?"

When we know what is the deep backlash, we are not dragged by the instant emotion.

2. Stay with people consciously

We don't have to be loved by everyone. Just don't have to hurt anyone. To be with someone else is to learn to adjust boundaries, not to be forced to stay or be like anyone else.

3. Practice letting go of the way that does not abandon yourself.

We don't have to hold everything ourselves.

Some irreparable things let it pass without judging themselves as "weak" or "not strong."

4.Adapt Mindset from "Must Do" to "Just Do Your Best"

No one on the planet has total control over the outcome.

The only thing we do best is try our best in our scope.

5. Remove negative thoughts with truth, not dreams.

When thinking negatively or in a bad state, don't try to tell yourself, "Look positively, think of good things, the world is good," but ask, "Is it really that bad?" Because the truth will heal us more than fake words of comfort.

Grow up without being perfect. You don't have to be an adult who has the answer to everything. Just be someone who is still trying to live with uncertainty, hasn't given up on the day you want to disappear, and there is little hope that tomorrow will be a little better.

"In a world where nothing is certain, the greatest courage is to live every day."

Because in the end, adulthood is not a perfect life, but learning to live an imperfect life without forgetting that our hearts still need love, understanding, and peace.

If you're tired...

It means that you are growing up and growing up is never beautiful in anyone's eyes, but let's know that you are not walking alone. There are many people walking in the same storm as you.

"Being an adult is not easy; it is full of confusion, pain and uncertainty; we must learn to live with the uncontrollable, and not try to be perfect; explore yourself, adjust your thinking, let go of what is not us, and coexist with people without hurting ourselves; for in a world where nothing is certain.

The guts are to live on. 🦋

"Grow painfully, but not in vain."

By writer Rawroot.

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