Don't underestimate yourself. Don't let the heart "negative."

This is an article that focuses on tuning attitudes to "live as" in today's society, focusing on respecting yourself and respecting others, for creative communication.

Don't Let the Mind Be "Negative" to Become a "Self-Insult": A No-Hurt Coexistence Trick

When everything is full of criticisms, many people may have been so annoyed by other people's words that they often think, "What have we done so much wrong?" "Are we not doing well enough?" Or "What have we done is all bad?" You can only blame yourself, not looking back at the origin and reason. When you are ignored when you speak or are told by the words that you do not listen to, those questions are in the head over and over again, which we never know that in this world, no one insults us as much as "ourselves."

When the idea is "negative," everything is "negative."

Attitudes are like wearing glasses. If we wear black glasses, the world is darkened. Negative thinking is not just pessimism, it's about "allowing" bad energy to destroy our confidence. When we start to insult ourselves for doing something bad or for looking worthless, it's like we're building a much tighter cage than anyone else would create for us.

You don't choose "beautiful world," but you choose "beautiful things."

Having a positive attitude doesn't mean we have to fool ourselves that everything is perfect or that we walk the lavender fields all the time.

"We are not so beautiful in the world that we cannot see the truth, but we choose to speak and think in angles that do not hurt ourselves and others."

Choosing gracious words or thinking before criticizing anyone is not hypocrisy, but maturity in a peaceful society.

Speech is like a mirror of thought.

Attitudes towards others are often reflected by what is in our hearts.

• If we only look for the disadvantages of others, our hearts will be hot.

• If we choose to communicate with understanding, even as a warning, if we do it with good intentions, the results will be different.

Maintaining manners and creative speech is creating a fine shield that prevents us from making unnecessary enemies, and most importantly, it makes us look like people with real inner charm.

Epilogue. Start at "heart," end at "happiness."

Remember that other people's words are just "spear," but our idea is "compass." If you stop insulting yourself today and encourage yourself instead, you will find that the sound of the raven outside is lighter for a long time.

The world may not be beautiful at all, but our hearts can be beautiful in our own thoughts and words.

What do you think is more difficult to deal with in everyday life between "the voice of criticism from others" or "the voice of self-reproach"?

Writer, rawroot.

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