Why only meet people like this? The "law of mirrors" reflects our hearts. 🪞

"How to apply the law of mirrors in real life." Remember the formula "3 shines."

1. Shine "frustrated things" (when meeting people who are not cute)

When do you feel a habit of someone, such as "Why is this person so boastful" or "Why does he talk so much?"

• How to use: Don't just curse him in your heart, stop and ask yourself, "Have we ever done this to anyone?" or "Are we being too strict about this in ourselves?"

• Secrets: Maybe we hate lazy people because we "can't order ourselves to be lazy," so we are deeply jealous of what they can do.

2. Shine "something to admire" (when meeting a good person).

When you look at someone and feel like, "Wow, this person is so cool," "I want to be so good."

• How to use it: Know that you have the "seed" of that kind of excellence in you, because if you don't have it at all, you can't see it and don't appreciate it.

• Secrets: The mirror reflects the "hidden potential" in you out through himself.

3. Shine "Correction" (Change in front of us, not in the mirror)

If you look in the mirror and see that your face is smudged, will you not wipe the cloth?

• How to use it: Instead of trying to change other people's habits (wipe the mirror), come back and deal with "our feelings" (wipe your face).

• Example: If you don't want to meet an exploiter, come back and practice more "rejection" and "love yourself." When inside we change, the same person can't do anything to us or he will gradually disappear from our lives.

"We don't see the world the way it is...But we see the world the way we are. 🪞🔍

The Mirror Rule theory says that those around us are mirrors, reflecting the knot in our hearts.

If someone irritates you today, stop asking yourself, 'What is this shadow telling us?'

Who has ever encountered an event that matches this rule? Or what habits of other people who have seen it? Let's share it. I want to read friends' comments! 👇✨

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