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Stop dating anyone who hurts more

When it comes to reality, it can hurt equally, but it hurts differently.

My girlfriend ✅ used to love, used to bond, used to live with and may have some thoughts or break up and may never see each other again.

Friends ✅ hurt like a garde when they saw him get close to other people, but we were in the same environment, met each other but couldn't talk, sat close to each other, walked in the cafeteria when they were eating together, it was just an old picture.

# Everyone has their own rhythm # Different people

And everyone thinks that for or for a girlfriend to share

2025/12/13 Edited to

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