i’m literally an adult 😀

Seriously, sometimes I look around and think, 'Wow, I'm literally an adult now!' It's such a weird and wonderful phase, especially when you're also trying to be a D1 college athlete. One minute I’m celebrating a big win, and the next I’m figuring out how to budget for groceries or tackle a huge assignment. It’s definitely a crash course in young adult responsibilities! For most of us, this 'young adult age' is roughly from our late teens through our twenties, a period often called 'early adulthood' or 'emerging adulthood.' It's a time of massive change and development, where you're truly defining who you are outside of your childhood home. As a college athlete, this stage feels amplified. We're not just dealing with typical student life; we have rigorous training schedules, travel, and the pressure of high-level competition. There are moments on the field, like when the umpire (let's call him 'blue') makes a tough call, or a pitch goes 'in the dirt,' and you just have to shake it off and 'lock back in for the next pitch.' That resilience isn't just for sports; it's a huge part of learning how to be an adult. The transition into adulthood isn't always smooth. One day you're relying on your parents for everything, and the next you're managing your own schedule, finances, and health. I've learned so much about time management – trying to balance practices, games, studying, and still having a social life is a constant puzzle! These are the 'young adult responsibilities' no one fully prepares you for, but they're essential for development in adulthood. I've had to teach myself how to make doctor's appointments, cook actual meals (beyond instant ramen!), and generally just 'adult' in ways I never thought about before. It's challenging, but it's also incredibly empowering. Despite the challenges, there are so many benefits of being an adult, even early on. There's a freedom to make your own choices, to pursue your passions, and to build the life you want. Learning how to enjoy adulthood comes from embracing these new experiences, even the tough ones. It's about finding joy in small victories, whether that's acing a tough exam, perfecting a new skill on the field, or simply making it through a busy week feeling accomplished. This 'coming of age' journey is all about growth, both personally and as an athlete. So, if you're also in this 'adulthood stage,' trying to figure out 'how to be a adult,' just know you're not alone. It's a process, and every day is a learning experience. Whether you're an older young adult or just starting out, remember that figuring things out is part of the fun. The experiences you gain now, like pushing your limits in sports or managing your first budget, are shaping the incredible person you're becoming. Keep showing up, keep learning, and don't forget to celebrate your wins, big or small!