First bouquet of flowers in 8 years ✨

HAPPY VALENTINE DAY 🌸✨ Believe that many girls would want flowers on important days, even if it wasn't Valentine's Day. We are one of them who secretly hopes for every important day that they want to be like everyone else. 😂

• Accept that our partner is one of the first flirtations. Fans always carry flowers or surprise gifts on every important day. Until they have been together for the third year, those surprises disappear over time. Until the latter rest, there is no memory or significance of the anniversary. Even after marriage, we never get anything like that until we forget that feeling of joy and excitement.

• Our husbands view these things as wasteful and often say that there is no money to buy 😅, but what we want to say to our husbands or men who view this as our husbands is that women do not want flowers or expensive things, but what they really want is the feeling that makes them think about how much their boyfriend cares about her.

• You may not know how ridiculous a small thing you think can make your heart grow. Some people don't demand it and often say they don't want it. But believe me, if you get a bouquet of flowers from your loved ones, that day will be your great day and make you smile all day.

• Cut to our bouquet. Actually, this bouquet should be our happiest day. Because it's the first bouquet in 8 years. But because it's the first bouquet in 8 years, it makes us not happy with it. We used to expect to stop expecting. We used to ask but never until we didn't ask for the 8 years we expected and honestly said to our husband that we wanted some other flowers, but in the end we didn't. We were always jealous of the other couple that they always had surprises for each other. I told my husband to go straight away and he was quiet.

• Until New Year's Day, we decided that we would never ask for anything from him again. We began to love ourselves. Wanted flowers, walked into the florist to buy a vase in our bedroom. Our hearts were so used and numb that we said to ourselves that the past love was fading and it might be gone.

• But then there came a flower to the house today. What we were most sorry and afraid of was that when we received flowers instead we were glad but we felt worse. We felt that they gave because we demanded. We didn't feel as glad or proud to have flowers as we were when we first dated, because we felt that they gave because they really wanted to, and they really loved us. But now we don't feel that way.

• Actually, this post would like to tell you guys, Caption says, "Don't let others make your girlfriend smile." It always works. Our feelings are delicate. We have no idea how the other person feels and how much they feel about it. Doing good to each other, don't wait for it to be too late for us. Today we try to draw our feelings all day. Tell ourselves that we should be happy. We should be proud, but it really can't. 🥺

P.S. On important days, we will always have a surprise gift. Every year from the first year and the first day even. But rest after the time we give or surprise him. He is never proud or in a story. 😂

* * * My husband is a kind person. He is good at everything. Helping with housework. We don't have to be tired of anything alone. Be good at it.

* * * We don't break up with our husbands or other people, we just want to share our experiences that some women shouldn't really overlook. We may be so selfish in focusing on it that we forget about the good, but believe that flowers aren't just about flowers:)

# Flowers for girlfriend # Anniversary flowers # valentinday # Love each other when still breathing