what would happen if you just didn’t tip?

As many of you are aware, tipping culture is not the same outside the US, so to a foreigner, is extremely bizzare to have to eventually pay a significant extra amount just to eat out. The logic outside the US (broadly speaking) says you pay for the product (meal) as it's priced and if you feel like tipping, go for it. So it's very strange to be obliged to pay a sinificant extra amount over the price that is stated. Obviously I know it's not the waiter's fault, it's just how things are in the US. Personally, my feeling (which could be wrong) is that I would avoid eating out in the US for that reason. I want to pay the price, not more money just because the system is messed up.

My question to you all: are you udnerstanding if a tourist doesn't tip (for reasons stated above) or do you expect the same tipping from all (i.e tourist should be aware of tipping culture and if they are not willing to tip, don't eat out at all)?

#letschat #asklemon8 #tipping #travel

2025/2/19 Edited to

... Read moreTipping in the United States is a complex cultural practice that can leave many tourists feeling perplexed. Unlike in other countries where service is typically included in the meal price, in the U.S., tips are expected to supplement the wages of service staff. Not tipping can lead to a number of social consequences such as being perceived as rude or inconsiderate. Many waitstaff rely heavily on tips for their income, leading to ongoing debates about the fairness of this system. If a tourist chooses not to tip, they may receive subpar service during their meal. Additionally, this decision could affect their overall experience, as many servers might feel disheartened or slighted. However, it's essential to understand that cultural norms vary widely in different regions; some might be more forgiving of a tourist's unfamiliarity with the tipping custom. For those who find the tipping culture uncomfortable, it's advisable to research and understand the norms before traveling. Some larger cities may have restaurants that include service charges, alleviating the tipping pressure for international visitors. Ultimately, learning about and adapting to local customs can significantly enhance a traveler's experience, making them feel more connected to the culture they are visiting.

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It’s a cultural norm. Americans have to abide by cultural etiquette when they travel, so do other people coming here. It’s simple

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