[Warning] Hot topic on ABEMA! Have you become a "utility pole girl" too?🍋

Have you seen the marriage hunting program 'Clockwork Marriage'?

Professor Uekusa's words are talked about as "too stinging..." ⚡

"I don't move on my own. I'm just waiting. That's a utility pole woman."

It's tough, but this is the reality of marriage.

It is really dangerous to rush into your 30s while dragging the "waiting love" of your 20s!

There is also data that the probability of fading out in one month exceeds 80% if it remains passive...

The app is a joint project.

Rather than waiting for the other person, showing sincerity by "action" from yourself is the first step to a wonderful encounter.

You can do it from today! Three actions for eliminating utility poles

① "Wait for the topic to be shaken" graduated today!

It is an iron rule to find a hook that the other person wants to talk about from the profile and ask a question.

❌ NG: "You like traveling!"

(The state of ending with impressions and throwing the ball back to the opponent)

⭕️ OK (Hobby): "You like traveling! The scenery in the photo is very beautiful, but where did you get the most tension out of the places you've been?"

⭕️ OK (work): "You are working for XX. You seem busy, but how do you refresh yourself on holidays?"

② Throw away the sweetness of "I want you to lead"

Let's stop measuring "escort power" by leaving all dating proposals and shop selection to men. Women who can reduce the burden of proposals are overwhelmingly important.

❌ NG: "Anything is fine" "I'll leave the shop to you"

(Throw all the effort of searching and decision to the other party)

⭕️ OK (suggested by two choices): "I feel like meat or seafood, which one do you like?"

⭕️ OK (area designation): "Recently, there is a shop that I am interested in around ○ ○ station, but why do not you go together next time?"

③ I understand that "I want you to understand" does not work

"I want you to notice my favor even if you don't say it" "I want you to understand unpleasant things" does not work for men. The shortest route to marriage hunting is to clearly convey your intentions and feelings in words.

❌ NG (Waiting attitude): After the date, do not contact even willingly until you receive a LINE of "Thank you for today" from the other party.

⭕️ OK (clarification of favor): "Thank you very much for today! The story of 〇〇 was very fun and it was quick. I want to talk again!"

⭕️ OK (Proposal for Progress): "Messaging is fun, but if it's okay, why don't you talk to me on the phone for just 5 minutes?"

With a little awareness, your marriage will change dramatically!

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