I don’t reply to messages on here

I have been on this app for going on two months. I downloaded this app thinking it was for females because the way Instagram advertised it. like a clean girl makeup and other things. So i downloaded it thinking I would gain female followers. I didn’t really want to post any pics because this account was for my artwork and other things I do. I gain a lot of followers which I’m not mad but it’s mostly men and I’m not trying to be mean but all my dm’s are of them telling me I’m beautiful and etc. I have posted that I am married and even post pics of my husband. I’m not trying to be rude and don’t want anyone to think I won’t respond but if you’re leaving dms like this please stop. Because I will not respond. Again not being mean and don’t mind talking to people on here as far as answering questions and giving helping advice. But please don’t private message me trying to hit on me because I’m very much married. And find it very disrespectful to God and my husband when guys do that. But fr can I please get other female followers 😂 this is crazy to me because this isn’t what I was expecting at all. Instagram mad funny for this. But other than that I don’t mind if you follow me just please be respectful.

2024/6/25 Edited to

... Read moreBeing on Lemon8 has been an enlightening experience, especially in navigating DM boundaries. Initially drawn in by the vibrant community surrounding art and creativity, I soon discovered that my account attracted a different demographic than anticipated. While I appreciate feedback and interaction, the volume of unsolicited compliments can be overwhelming. It’s important for users to establish clear communication and respect boundaries, fostering a supportive environment. If you're an artist or content creator on Lemon8, consider sharing your own experiences in managing messages or building a community with like-minded individuals. Engaging in thoughtful discussions can not only enhance your visibility but also cultivate connections based on mutual respect and shared interests. Prioritizing a healthy online environment serves both personal and professional development, enabling artists to thrive without distractions. Let’s embrace authenticity and respect on this platform, making it a nurturing space for all creatives. Together, we can uplift each other by focusing on genuine interactions and celebrating each other's art.

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This app was originally created for women but has been slowly allowing men to join. You should see the DMs I get from women (could be bots) it's sickening. Do your thing and ignore the DMs

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