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Okay. It’s spooky season. We can’t talk about spooky season without real life spooky stuff. Come at me all you want. I know I’m not the only weird girly out there into true crime, has a favorite serial k!ller, and likes gore. And if I am, I don’t mind. All of these books are based on true stori

If you’ve ever wondered why the state of Black America is the way it is, this book is a must-read for understanding the deeper roots of our struggles. #blackgirlsread📚 #activist #blacklemon8creator #books #blackbooks

the words “i’m sorry” used to be a part of almost ✨every✨ sentence i spoke. i used to apologize for eeeeverything, to the point where it felt like i was apologizing just for existing 🫠 i grew out of that over the years 🙏🏼 but if you don’t intentionally work on it, your people pleasing habits wi

Cute poses for 3 people!!💗💗 #poses #picswithfriends #pictureinspo #pleaselike #dontfllp #inspo

we all know the struggle 😅 you don’t feel like you can say no to plans. someone asks about details of your life you don’t want to share, but you feel obligated. your manager asks you to work more hours, and you automatically say yes. breaking the people pleasing cycle is uncomfortable as hell. i

Do any of these relate?!😭😭 To me, a people pleaser is has a repeated pattern of putting the needs of others, before their own. And all though I believe compromise is essential in healthy relationships, a people pleaser will often self-abandon in the name of “compromising”. 😓 People pleasing can

Hey beautiful people of lemon8 ! I’m engaged 🤍 if you follow me you know I’m sweating with this wedding if you’re a bride also, hey we are in the same boat ! So my wedding is JULY 17 this year my mom in law offered to do the cake she’s so sweet I have to decide tho I have this options I LOVE !

it’s easy to mistake people-pleasing for being loving. we think of it as self sacrifice in order to accommodate others, right? in reality, it’s actually one of the most selfish ways to engage with other people. and here’s why ⤵️ reasons we people-please: ➡️ to avoid conflict ➡️ because we fe

saying no is hard 😅 it can feel awkward and uncomfortable, and sometimes it seems so hard that we don’t do it - we just say yes, even when we know we don’t want to. if you struggle with people pleasing, or saying no, these tips are for you ⤵️ when you should say no: ✅ when you feel uncomforta

Does anyone else struggle with being a people pleaser? I used to be the biggest people pleaser until I realized that my desire to please everyone came from a dislike of myself. If I didn’t like myself, how could I trust the others would like me unless I was constantly available and on for everyo

I feel like I've been a people pleaser my whole life. It's something that I'm still actively working on improving, and I have to keep reminding myself that saying no now can lead to more meaningful and healthy relationships in the future. Here are some practical tips to help you stop

Ugh if people pleading was a crime I’d be In jail 😅 Through my extensive self work and deep inner work I’ve done over the past 2 years I’ve realized that the reason I and most of us people pleasers have a hard time saying no is because we feel like we are letting people down or disappointing th

Wanted to see what people's opinions where on homeless people having dogs/pets of any sort. Please list your reason why you think they should or shouldn't have any pets. I feel split about this subject. Just curious what other people's opinion about it are!? #AskLemon8 #homeless