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People may not even remember, but people will never forget.

Every time we point a finger at anyone,

Don't forget... there's another four fingers pointing back at us.

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At one point in my life,

That we feel "everyone else is wrong."

He doesn't like it.

He can't speak correctly.

He lives a life that doesn't match what we think "should be."

So we accidentally said

Accidentally judging

Accidentally criticizing

Even though he...

Probably didn't hurt us at all.

---

The fact that many people overlook is

"Other people's words may reflect him."

But "Our words reflect 100% of ourselves."

If our hearts are still

The words are soft.

If our hearts have knots

The words are often sharp.

Without us knowing.

And some words...

People may not even remember.

But people listen.

Remember never forget

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"Words Before Saying - We Master It."

"The latter said - it was our master."

The little thing that keeps us from accidentally "biting" anyone is

Let's pause for three seconds and ask yourself,

🔖 Is that necessary?

🔖, right?

🔖 Mercy?

If not complete...

Silence may be worth more than talking.

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Not interfering with other people's lives.

Not because we are passive

But because we choose

Keep your heart

And not to wound anyone unnecessarily. 🤍

---

"Inviting to talk:"

Have you ever... just one sentence?

Stay in mind for a long time?

And today...

Do you think "our words" have ever been in anyone's mind?

Let's share your views in the comments. 💬

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